Life is something that is very interesting to watch and getting involved in aint so bad either. When we leave ourselves open to the miracles that happen every day to those other peole that happen to us as well. Lord knows, forcing solutions never works and only cause more hurt and frustration than you can ever imagine possible. Yet to relax and find the rythm of the universe sets you free to join the flow of all that is good.
In that flow you find happiness and contentment along the way. I am not sure how to tell anyone how to get there. It is like telling someone how to 'let go and let God'. I could never figure out how to tell someone how to do that either. I just know that with enough prayer and meditation it just happens and than you find yourself in the flow and everything good you deserve comes to you. Life is truely a wonderful experience to be enjoyed and lived to the fullest.
Once the abuse stops and we have gained distance from the people that did the abusing we ahve to take the next step. That step was thwe hardest one of all for me, even harder than not getting into abusive relationships and that was to stop abusing myself. I have been told that in the absence of the abuser the abuse victim will abuse themselves. I think that is because I did not know any better and I associated abuse with love. It took time for that idea to change and a lot of hard work on my end. It was and is very much worth the effort to stop abusing myself and learn to love myself and see what happens. So far so good. Have a great day all and God Bless.
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