Positive Changes

The changes that happen in our lives when we leave the abuser and the abuse behind cannot help but be positive. Our Higher Power wants nothing but the best for us and we have but to accept it. The abuse we went through showed us that we can survive anything the world has to throw at us. It showed us that we are strong enough to survive and determined enough to thrive and that is a positive thing.

We cannot change what happened to us and we cannot change the person or the people that abused us in the past. We need to remember that it is in the past and it does not define our future unless we allow it to. If we choose to live in anger and bitterness than that will be our future. If we choose to live with a positive view of ourselves than we will have that as well.

We alone have the power to make our lives anything we want them to be. We can thrive and be all that we want to be, all we have to do is think a positive thought. We need to remember that we are strong and we do have the power to control our lives. We remember what happened only to prevent it from happening again. Though with the laws of attraction being what they are.

When we feel good about ourselves we can only attract people that feel good about us as well. When we believe that we deserve the best we will attract the best. When we believe that we deserve love we will get love. We have the power and all we have to do is use it.