The word court strikes fear deep in out minds and we want to run for the hills. We just know that nothing good will come out of it because for so very long nothing good did. It does offer us protection and support when we can get it and at times it fails miserably. The reality is that in the end the only thing that we can really do it to prepare the best we can and than turn it over to God.
He has a view of the big picture and ultimately what is in our best and greater good. Sometimes we cannot see the forest for the trees and that can leave us feeling very confused, scared and hurt. We have no control over what a judge or anyone else can do in that courtroom. Perhaps it would not be so scary if we did not think we had so much control over the rest of our lives.
The reality of course is that we do not have any control over our lives and what happens in them. The only thing we have control over is how we choose to react to the events that go on around us. We control our thoughts, actions and words beyond that we are pretty much powerless. We have already found that by dealing with the abusive person we have no control over how they react to things.
We can take any situation and turn it into something that is positive for us and for our families and that can be hard at times. We choose to see the positive or the negative in everything that happens in our life. When we choose to see the negative we only see how everything is against us and how we are about to get screwed over.
When we choose to see the positive we show that we have faith not only in ourselves but our higher power as well. When we choose to see the positive we choose to see the doors open for us and the opportunities coming our way to make our life better.im-breaking-free.blogspot.com
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
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