Choices

I remember when I was with those that abused me there was something that I did not have, choices. All the choices I made were about self protection and are those really choices? Protect yourself from being hurt or killed or not, not much of a choice there. When I got out of the abusive situation I found myself flooded with choices and it was very overwhelming.

There was no clear cut thing like before and it was very scary. What if I made the wrong choice, what would happen then? This eventually got better as time went by and it became easier to make choices. What I needed to do was to learn to trust my own ability to not only make choices but good choices. That took time and I gained confidence in my ability with each choice I made. This is one thing along the way to a happy life. The happy life that you deserve to have. Technorati Profile